Reconciliation Lesson 
Questions for Processing:  
 
  1. What does Ephesians 4:31 reveal about the dangers of holding onto bitterness and anger? How have you seen these attitudes hinder spiritual growth in your life? 
 
  1. In Ephesians 4:32, Paul connects our forgiveness of others to how Christ forgave us. How does remembering the gospel help us choose forgiveness? What are some practical ways to remind ourselves of the grace we’ve received? 
 
  1. Why do you think forgiveness is so difficult for followers of Jesus? What makes it feel like a “decision” more than a “feeling”? 
 
  1. Scripture commands us to imitate God and walk in love. How does forgiveness shape the way we grow in sanctification and reflect Christ? Do you think forgiveness can lead to spiritual maturity and healing?  
 
  1. As you wrestle through this, is there anyone that you need to forgive, and what steps can you take to forgive in the next 7 days?